Lori and Blake Ruff were married in 2004. They were living the dream, happily married and even had a daughter in 2008.
Lori Ruff had a secret and never really told anyone about her past. She told her in-laws that both of her parents had died and she had no living relatives.
Eventually, Lori didn’t allow her in-laws to see their grandchild.
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Her marriage to Blake became strained, and they went to see a marriage counselor.
In 2010, the couple divorced and soon after Lori became increasingly unstable.
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She sent threatening messages to both Blake and his family and wouldn’t allow them to see her daughter.
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Lori Ruff was found dead in her home on Christmas Eve 2010, she had committed suicide.
As Blake was going through her things, he found a lunch box that had ID cards with different names on them.
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